Story. Story telling. It defines us. It defines our culture – home, work, community, other. Through the stories we tell we point to where our focus is and we get more of what we focus on. Much of our story telling is unconscious – we tell our stories without thinking about them or their impact – on us, on others.
What if we told every story from a place of consciousness and intentionality, understanding the power of story and how it shapes our experience, our relationships and our world? What stories would you choose to tell with intentionality? What stories would you stop telling? How would some of your stories shift and change as a result?
We make sense of ourselves, our journey, our relationships, events that happen to us, the places we work, through story. We cannot move on from our experience until we have integrated it through story and, most often we need to be witnessed – which is why we verbalize our story to others.
Story is the basis of sustaining relationship. We cannot know another person until we know their story and often, once we do know their story, everything shifts – from interacting with “those” people to interacting with living, breathing human beings where soul, the sacred and magic can enter.
Every story counts. Every story serves to put positive or negative energy into your interpersonal field.
Your stories define you. Sometimes we are attached to certain stories we tell – especially the ones we tell over and over again. Are you attached to a story in your life? Does it serve you in being the best you can be? In living an inspired life? If not, how can you shift the story you carry to shape a more powerful experience and build capacity – for you and for those around you?